About Dynamic Counseling

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Dynamic Counseling was created by Leyna Alexander, M.Ed., to provide support and consult through empowerment with those who practice a Polyamorous and/or Kinky lifestyle. I provide workshops in Olympia, WA and Online. My workshops are Building your Ideal Polyamorous Relationship, which includes a workbook called: A Guide to Practical Polyamory & Building your Ideal BDSM Dynamic: which include a book called: A Guide to Practical BDSM (coming soon). I also provide in person or online Relationship Consulting and Mental Health Counseling-this is only available in Washington State. While consulting I will use the following techniques: Modeling, Positive Reinforcement, Self-Empowerment, PsychoEducation, Books, Reframing, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapies.

I earned a Master’s in Education for Counseling from the University of Alaska Fairbanks. At the end of working towards my M.Ed., I discovered polyamory and then BDSM, which propelled me to to apply my research to my own life. Through the past six years, I have had many Growth Opportunities with my Husband, and now my Boyfriend, on how to create a strong foundation, discuss rules, boundaries, and healthy communication in my relationships. From this experience, I’ve created workbooks to help you discover and navigate Polyamory and Kink.


“Leyna Alexander embraces the journey of the individual through compassion, education, and encouragement. Her workshops on non-traditional lifestyles serve as a guide to those just starting out in kink or polyamory, to those experienced and needing a fresh perspective. Whether you’re looking to open your marriage, embrace your body in a positive way, explore your sexuality, or gain insight into the world of BDSM, Leyna’s methods will help you to ease into these changes with confidence and enthusiastic consent.”
                           ~Sienna Saint-Cyr, erotica author and educator on embracing sexuality

“I’ve been Poly for most of my adult life. I took the Poly 101 class with one of my partners because she was struggling with some of the aspects of our relationship. I really didn’t think I would learn anything, but was I wrong! 

The information was laid out in a professional and easy to follow manner. Leyna presented the information very well and asked for input from all of the attendees. It seemed like we were just having a conversation, rather than taking a class. I would definitely recommend this class to anyone who is interested in learning about Polyamory.”

                             ~Dave Levin